我即将出家,也是“回家”

我即将出家,也是“回家”

前言:这是一位佛弟子去寺庙常住,致力于出家修行的真实旅程,她以自己的视角观察着人生,记录着时光荏苒。

(一)哪里是真正的家?

数年魂系梦绕,翘首以盼,我终于得到家人的支持,从世俗纷扰的家出来,去到清净庄严的“家”——寺庙,准备出家。在尘世中,我浑浑噩噩、跌跌撞撞了几十年,苦过、乐过、喜过、悲过,昨日好似一帘幽梦。晨钟暮鼓,洗涤了疲惫的身心,此刻宁静而安乐,我决定在这里剃下青丝,换上僧袍。这里会成为我的“家”。哦不,这里也不是我真正的归宿,我真正的“家”,是一片净土。那里,没有任何痛苦,没有悲欢离合,没有生老病死;那里,思衣得衣,思食得食,幸福长乐。

(二)寺庙的温暖

在寺院,大寮是最忙碌的地方。我自愿去大寮工作,但法师们知道我腰部动过手术,无论如何也不让我干。我被调到大殿去护持香灯,尽管这样,住持和师姐们依然千叮万嘱让我注意休息,别累着!这一连串温暖的关怀,让我情不自禁地洒下了感动的眼泪。师姐们对我非常热情,也很细心指导我。有位师姐白天劳累了一天,可她晚上还来帮我按摩腰部,我竟推辞不掉。要出坡(僧侣上山劳作)时,这位师姐总抢着重活干,搬点啥东西,总推开不让我动,总怕我累着,天天呵护我。晚上熄灯前,她总来问我今天累吗?有哪不舒服?冷吗?睡得好吗?……有时明明是我做得不对,可她总是忏悔是自己的错,是她没说明白……这让我如何不动容?!我又流下了感激的泪水。

(三)女儿的醒悟

在我住进寺庙后,我的女儿,来了寺庙探望,还求皈依。曾经,她依赖算命,东奔西跑了好多年。听说哪个寺庙名气大就要专门去敬奉;听到哪里有佛教大人物来了,赶忙去朝拜;听到哪里有神算子,不远千里去算一卦,她从恋爱、结婚、生娃、取名、工作、生意,零零碎碎的事都要去算了才安心。我常和她讲:学佛修行才能转换因果,其他的,算得再准也改变不了因果;那些所谓的半仙给的方法再灵验,也是治标不治本,有些事儿逃得过初一,逃不过十五……可惜她根本听不进去。

几年下来,时间、精力、钱财花费不少,可是,她的生活依然一团糟,她也不得不开始反思。她在家恭闻了南無第三世多杰羌佛的法音后,不仅没有反对我出家,还千里迢迢跑到寺院来探望我。她说是来看我,但其实是来求皈依的。她终于明白了学佛修行可以转换因果的道理,不再迷信命理运气。看着女儿在寺院扛起了锄头忙碌,我喜不自禁又流泪了,那是欣喜的眼泪!

这里的生活充实又美好。在这个温馨的大家庭里,大家都在努力付出,也互相关心,互相友爱。大寮的师姐们总是变着花样做出各式素食佳肴,让大家开心享用。法师们非常亲和,和我们一起聊天、干活,有美食,总要与大家一起分享!

熟悉的人都说我犯傻,安逸的日子不过,到寺庙自找苦吃。可他们哪里知道,真正苦的不仅仅是身不由己的人间纷扰,还有在六道里的不断轮回。我不是自找苦吃,而是从睡梦中醒来了,追寻身无藩篱、心无挂碍,追寻人生的大自在。

我即将出家,也是“回家”

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编辑:炊烟/悦色

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17. The Wind and the Moon [Friendship]

17. The Wind and the Moon [Friendship]

Buddhist Tales for Young and Old, volume 1, Prince Goodspeaker, Stories 1-50

Once upon a time, there were two very good friends who lived together in the shade of a rock. Strange as it may seem, one was a lion and one was a tiger. They had met when they were too young to know the difference between lions and tigers. So they did not think their friendship was at all unusual. Besides, it was a peaceful part of the mountains, possibly due to the influence of a gentle forest monk who lived nearby. He was a hermit, one who lives far away from other people.

For some unknown reason, one day the two friends got into a silly argument. The tiger said, “Everyone knows the cold comes when the moon wanes from full to new!" The lion said, “Where did you hear such nonsense? Everyone knows the cold comes when the moon waxes from new to full!"

The argument got stronger and stronger. Neither could convince the other. They could not reach any conclusion to resolve the growing dispute. They even started calling each other names! Fearing for their friendship, they decided to go ask the learned forest monk, who would surely know about such things.

Visiting the peaceful hermit, the lion and tiger bowed respectfully and put their question to him. The friendly monk thought for a while and then gave his answer. “It can be cold in any phase of the moon, from new to full and back to new again. It is the wind that brings the cold, whether from west or north or east. Therefore, in a way, you are both right! And neither of you is defeated by the other. The most important thing is to live without conflict, to remain united. Unity is best by all means."

The lion and tiger thanked the wise hermit. They were happy to still be friends.

The moral is: Weather comes and weather goes, but friendship remains.

17. The Wind and the Moon [Friendship]

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16. The Fawn Who Played Dead [Attendance]

16. The Fawn Who Played Dead [Attendance]

Buddhist Tales for Young and Old, volume 1, Prince Goodspeaker, Stories 1-50

Once upon a time, there was a herd of forest deer. In this herd was a wise and respected teacher, cunning in the ways of deer. He taught the tricks and strategies of survival to the young fawns.

One day, his younger sister brought her son to him, to be taught what is so important for deer. She said, “Oh brother teacher, this is my son. Please teach him the tricks and strategies of deer." The teacher said to the fawn, “Very well, you can come at this time tomorrow for your first lesson."

The young deer came to the lessons as he was supposed to. When others cut classes to spend all day playing, he remained and paid attention to the good teacher. He was well-liked by the other young bucks and does, but he only played when his class work was complete. Being curious to learn, he was always on time for the lessons. He was also patient with the other students, knowing that some learn more quickly than others. He respected the teacher deer for his knowledge, and was grateful for his willingness to share it.

One day, the fawn stepped in a trap in the forest and was captured. He cried out in great pain. This frightened the other fawns, who ran back to the herd and told his mother. She was terrified, and ran to her brother the teacher. Trembling with fear, crying big tears, she said to him, “Oh my dear brother, have you heard the news that my son has been trapped by a hunter’s snare? How can I save my little child’s life? Did he study well in your presence?"

Her brother said, “My sister, don’t be afraid. I have no doubt he will be safe. He studied hard and always did his very best. He never missed a class and always paid attention. Therefore, there is no need to have doubt or pain in your heart. He will not be hurt by any human being. Don’t worry. I am confident he will return to you and make you happy again. He has learned all the tricks and strategies used by deer to cheat the hunters. So be patient. He will return!"

Meanwhile, the trapped fawn was thinking, “All my friends were afraid and ran away. There is no one to help me get out of this deadly trap. Now I must use the tricks and strategies I learned from the wise teacher who taught so well."

The deer strategy he decided to use was the one called, “playing dead." First, he used his hoofs to dig up the dirt and grass, to make it look like he had tried very hard to escape. Then he relieved his bowels and released his urine, because this is what happens when a deer is caught in a trap and dies in very great fear. Next, he covered his body with his own saliva.

Lying stretched out on his side, he held his body rigidly and stiffened his legs out straight. He turned up his eyes, and let his tongue hang out of the side of his mouth. He filled his lungs with air and puffed out his belly. Finally, with his head leaning on one side, he breathed through the nostril next to the ground, not through the upper one.

Lying motionless, he looked so much like a stiff corpse that flies flew around him, attracted by the awful smells. Crows stood nearby waiting to eat his flesh.

Before long it was early morning and the hunter came to inspect his traps. Finding the fawn who was playing dead, he slapped the puffed up belly and found it stiff. Seeing the flies and the mess he thought, “Ah, it has already started to stiffen. He must have been trapped much earlier this morning. No doubt the tender meat is already starting to spoil. I will skin and butcher the carcass right here, and carry the meat home."

Since he completely believed the deer was dead, he removed and cleaned the trap, and began spreading leaves to make a place to do the butchering. Realizing he was free, the fawn suddenly sprang to his feet. He ran like a little cloud blown by a swift wind, back to the comfort and safety of his mother. The whole herd celebrated his survival, thanks to learning so well from the wise teacher.

The moral is: Well-learned lessons bring great rewards.

16. The Fawn Who Played Dead [Attendance]

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INTERPRETER’S INTRODUCTION – BUDDHIST TALES FOR YOUNG AND OLD, VOLUME 1, STORIES 1-50

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春节放生,善心善行就是最好的“开门红”

春节放生,善心善行就是最好的“开门红”

每到逢年过节,对于人们来说是欢天喜地的日子,人人都希望过了这个春节能有个“开门红”,一年之内都大吉大利,但对于很多鸡鸭鱼畜这些众生却恰恰是它们被宰杀的日子,这很令人伤感和无奈!因此每逢节假日,都会涌现出许多佛弟子放生、救生、护生的动人故事。

那么今年的春节又发生了那些放生、救生、护生的故事呢?

放生被剪掉翅膀的鸽子和被剪掉“屁股”的螺蛳

正月初六,我去菜市场买了一些虾准备放生,转回头再买一些蔬菜,突然在肉菜摊旁边,一个商贩喊着“鸽子啊,鸽子……”有只很可爱的鸽子在笼子里,老板说鸽子已经被剪掉一只翅膀了,要买自己去拿吧!

我想买下,但又犹豫,剪掉了翅膀的鸽子怎么放生?放到哪里啊?似乎根本找不到可以放生的地方,脑子陷入空白。

老板看着我呆呆的站着哪里,说道:“这鸽子要吗?”

“不管怎样我必须先买下它再说,否则一会儿它的命运就是被宰杀烹饪,非常凄惨!”想到这里,我立刻把这只剪掉了一只翅膀的鸽子买了下来。当我付过钱后,突然想到西园寺里可以放生鸽子,那里的环境非常适合这只鸽子的生存。

于是我就把它带回家先养起来,并让它跟着一起听闻南无第三世多杰羌佛的法音后,第二天上午,我把它送到西园寺放生了。

看着这只被剪掉一只翅膀的鸽子很快融入了寺院的环境,我的心一阵轻松。

放生,就应该如是救命于刀下。

我的家乡临着太湖以及阳澄湖,是鱼米之乡,更是盛产螺蛳。每到春天,螺蛳就成了人们餐桌的美味,一些信男善女也喜欢选择在这个时间段放生螺蛳。而商贩们也常常会剪掉螺蛳的“屁股”,以便卖的更快。春节期间,我就经常在菜市场或街道边遇到被剪掉“屁股”的螺蛳。

以前我遇到这种情况就曾经犹豫该不该买下来放生呢?对此,放生的人各说不一。有的说被剪掉“屁股”的螺蛳还会活1-2天,让它们在没有恐惧中自然死亡总胜过放入油锅吧。但也有人说这种放生没有真正意义。想想自己不小心被热油溅在手上那种刻骨铭心的疼,这时螺蛳被热油所炒的痛苦可想而知了。同时,有些螺蛳虽然被剪掉了“屁股”,当下它们还活着,这时在春季时它有可能产下数十只的小螺蛳,想一想那会挽救么多少生命啊?于是,我不再犹豫,我要尽我的能力救助这些可怜的弱小众生……(文:东山)

我过了一个打破传统习俗的元宵节

元宵节这天,民间都有赏灯的习俗。我们这里的习俗是,元宵节早上,全家人吃元宵,预示团团圆圆。下午,开始蒸面灯(用面粉做的的灯),一般是蒸十二盏代表一年十二个月,每盏面灯上捏月份和花朵,再蒸一些菜角子或馒头,晚上除了门口挂灯笼外,主要的就是点面灯了。全家有几口人就点几盏灯,每人端着自己的那一盏灯说:照照照照眼,三年不害眼,照照照照腚,三年不害病。习俗、传统都是沿袭下来的,大家都是这样遵循的。但今年的元宵节,我这个家庭主妇没有完全按照这样的习俗。元宵节一大早,我带家人去放生了。

我们到鱼市,随缘购买了鲫鱼、泥鳅、长鱼、甲鱼、螃蟹等等,快速开车到楚河边。我们认真地念佛号、念咒语,把功德回向给这些众生。看着鱼儿们回到了本属于自己的家园,高兴地欢跳着,我情不自禁地流下泪水,悲从心起,感慨万千:愿你们来生能皈依佛门,学佛修行,脱离轮回苦海。

转眼间到了晚上,我家没有点面灯,而是到共修的大佛堂与其他佛弟子一起诵经、诵咒、燃灯供佛了。今年的元宵节,我虽然没有按当地传承下来的世俗去做,可心里十分踏实,充满了喜悦……(文:千里草)

元宵节,故友驱车百里来学放生

元宵节那天,上午8点多钟,外地故友来电话说她今天要到我家共度佳节,正驾车在高速公路上了。她离我家100多公里,为什么偏偏选今天来?会是有什么事呢?

当她赶到我家时,已近中午。寒暄了几句后,她直接了当告诉我:“今天来是想跟你学习一下如何放生,不能再拖了。最好我们一起实地放生一次”。

原来,她丈夫经常看我的朋友圈发的放生信息。每当看到我发的放生信息,就会对她说:"你朋友今天又放生了。我们也要经常放生才好。”这不,今天在他老公的催促下,她专程来找我学习有关的放生仪轨和注意事项。提到放生我来了精神,差点蹦起高来,因为我和妻子原本就打算今天一起去放生呢!我们匆匆吃了几口午饭,就一起去购买了放生物到河边放生去了……

放生结束后,我留下朋友恭闻了一盘南无第三世多杰羌佛的法音,并介绍了古佛降世的来龙去脉以及如来正法的伟大。朋友听得非常投入。她还恭请了《解脱大手印》《什么叫修行》以及《古佛降世的背后》《揭开真相》等佛书。千万别小看朋友圈的影响力。我们每一个善行的信息每一句充满正能量的朋友圈都可能在潜移默化影响着身边人。就让这种善行进行到底,愿越来越多的朋友因为我们的修行而弃恶向善,学佛修行。(文:红珊瑚)

编后语:

《了义佛旨》有云:“佛子当行放生德”。大部分学佛修行人都会明白一切众生都是我们的亲人的道理,因此放生也是佛弟子救助亲人的方式之一。随缘放生看似简单,因为放生并没有太多的技术要求,然而在某种情况下会变得并不简单。它时刻考验着是否能真正把众生当成自己的亲人,检验着我们是否生起了柔软心、慈悲心,检验着我们的修行。

春节放生,救物命于刀下,善心善行就是我们大吉大利,最好的“开门红”。

撰稿:东山、千里草、红珊瑚

编辑:上福地、西边的彩虹

春节放生,善心善行就是最好的“开门红”

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佛弟子訪談- AM1300中文廣播電臺 專訪美國舊金山華藏寺住持若慧法師【第十一集】

佛弟子訪談- AM1300中文廣播電臺 專訪美國舊金山華藏寺住持若慧法師【第十一集】

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15. The Fawn Who Played Hooky [Truancy]

15. The Fawn Who Played Hooky [Truancy]

Buddhist Tales for Young and Old, volume 1, Prince Goodspeaker, Stories 1-50

Once upon a time, there was a herd of forest deer. In this herd was a wise and respected teacher, cunning in the ways of deer. He taught the tricks and strategies of survival to the young fawns.

One day, his younger sister brought her son to him, to be taught what is so important for deer. She said, “Oh brother teacher, this is my son. Please teach him the tricks and strategies of deer." The teacher said to the fawn, “Very well, you can come at this time tomorrow for your first lesson."

At first, the young deer came to the lessons as he was supposed to. But soon, he became more interested in playing with the other young bucks and does. He didn’t realize how dangerous it could be for a deer who learned nothing but deer games. So he started cutting classes. Soon he was playing hooky all the time.

Unfortunately, one day the fawn who played hooky stepped in a snare and was trapped. Since he was missing, his mother worried. She went to her brother the teacher, and asked him, “My dear brother, how is my son? Have you taught your nephew the tricks and strategies of deer?"

The teacher replied, “My dear sister, your son was disobedient and unteachable. Out of respect for you, I tried my best to teach him. But he did not want to learn the tricks and strategies of deer. He played hooky! How could I possibly teach him? You are obedient and faithful, but he is not. It is useless to try to teach him."

Later they heard the sad news. The stubborn fawn who played hooky had been trapped and killed by a hunter. He skinned him and took the meat home to his family.

The moral is: Nothing can be learned from a teacher, by one who misses the class.

15. The Fawn Who Played Hooky [Truancy]

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INTERPRETER’S INTRODUCTION – BUDDHIST TALES FOR YOUNG AND OLD, VOLUME 1, STORIES 1-50

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